Read the whole original barf-o-rama.
I agree—forced respect is not respect at all, it is tyranny; and no one has a right to demand the respect of others simply for the sake of tradition or silly power relations. But I don’t think that’s what is going on in the majority of religious discussion—at least none appearing in the current poll or the ensuing discussion.
There certainly are people that demand homage to their chosen ideals, but both sides in the religious debate are guilty of that. Atheists demand unflinching loyalty to their version of rationality as much as the religious seem to demand unflinching loyalty to their chosen God(s).
So, it’s not so much a matter of ignoring beliefs I think are wrong, as it is a matter of live and let live. But I do work to understand them and why people hold the beliefs that they do—I even came to understand, with some work, why people can get very worked up about a sports team. Religion came more easily to me, but there were some definite challenges along the way. I am not a Christian for various reasons, but I have a solid understanding of why Christians do most of what they do.
But I had to get over my dissatisfaction with both Christianity, and football, in order to understand what motivated people to engage with them….
Oh, and hey, did I mention that the Buddha taught that life is suffering? What else could be suffering, please, but to be condemned to hear nothing but this kind of drivel out of your peers for the rest of your life?
Namu Amida Butsu
Xing Ping


